About Annie Lane

Annie Lane

Annie Lane

Annie Lane grew up in California and headed east to graduate with honors from New York University, where she majored in English literature and specialized in psychology. She earned her Juris Doctor from New York Law School.

Since July 2016, Annie has offered common-sense solutions to everyday problems in her column, “Dear Annie.” Her advice is unusually perceptive. She is firm, funny and sympathetic, echoing the style of her biggest inspiration, Ann Landers.

Annie lives outside Manhattan with her husband, two kids and two dogs. When not writing, she devotes her time to play dates and Play-Doh. 

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Protecting What's Private Oct 04, 2025

Dear Annie: My husband and I have a large family, and earlier this year we welcomed our newest baby, "Izzy." The pregnancy went smoothly, and everyone thought she was healthy until about half a week after coming home, when she began showing concernin... Read More

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Feeling Unsafe in Your Own Space Oct 03, 2025

Dear Annie: A set of neighbors used to live across the street from me. When they did, I thought they were really nice, but I found out later — too late — that they were meth addicts who stole anything that wasn't nailed down, including fr... Read More

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Learning to Say 'I've Got This' at Work, and 'No, Thank You' at Home Oct 02, 2025

Dear Annie: I recently started a new job at a software company, and for the most part, I really like it. The work is interesting, my co-workers are friendly, and the company culture is a good fit for me. The only issue is my manager. She has a habit ... Read More

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When You've Always Been There for Family -- and They're No Longer There for You Oct 01, 2025

Dear Annie: I am an 85-year-old widow living alone. I have three children, five grandchildren and five great-grandchildren. In years past, when I was still driving, I would visit regularly and made it a point to stay involved. I helped pay for camps,... Read More